Wednesday, April 26, 2017

4 Reasons Why It's Okay to Lose People In Life.

4 Reasons why it’s Okay to Lose People in Life.

4 reasons why it's okay to lose people in life



To tell the truth, not one single person likes to lose someone. It’s hard, very hard, and can lead to being depressed and feeling like our lives are falling apart without that person. Sometimes though, we have to let those people go. Maybe they only bring negativity into our lives and continue to hurt us but it’s never good to keep a toxic person in your life.

That person can continue to just hurt you over and over again and that is never good for anyone. It can be one of the hardest things you’ve ever had to deal with in your life but it will help you so much, in the long run, I can promise you that. You deserve so much better and here is why it is completely okay to lose some people in your life, no matter how hard it might seem.

1.     You don’t need the negativity.
4 reasons why it's okay to lose people in life



Sometimes there’s a friend, boy/girlfriend, or even family member that can constantly bring negativity into our lives. They can honestly just make you feel so terrible about something every single day that it just keeps hurting you so much you end up depressed and don’t even realize that 99% of the time it was that person that led you to that point. It’s painful and it hurts a ton, especially to let that person go, but you don’t deserve to be made feel this way. If a person really does care for you, they will not put you in this position. They are toxic to you and to your mental health and it might hurt to let them go but it will help you so much in the long run when they aren’t taking you down every step of the way. If they constantly text you whenever they need someone to talk to but after that you don’t hear from them, let them go. If they always run to you or call you whenever they have drama with another person but then they don’t talk to you after that and they talked bad about that person to you, they will end up running to the other person and talking to them terribly about you to them. That’s called two faced and you should let them go for good because they aren’t worth your time. A person that does these type of things to you, will always only bring you down and you don’t deserve it. They never cared like they claimed they did and you need so much more than that.

2.     You’ll be able to see the better side of yourself.

This is one thing we never think of. Whenever we get rid of the toxic people in our lives, we can actually see a better side to ourselves we’ve never thought we would see before. We see how much happier we are without that toxic, hateful person in our lives and it’s so much better. You appreciate more things such as the sunshine and having a roof over your head more than you do a fake friend or family member that only hurt you and made you want to lock yourself inside. You’ll smile a lot more and feel a ton of happiness just spread all over you. You won’t cry as much nor feel as terrible all the time for the things that person said. You will honestly just be so happy, they will be the last of your concerns. You deserve happiness, not depression all because of what someone said that wasn’t even worth your time or energy for listening to.

3.     You’ll have more opportunities to meet better people.

This is the best part. Whenever you take toxic people out of your life, you are actually making room for better people. For people that can make you happy like you deserve to be and for people who deserve to be in your life because they will treat you so much better. This step might take some time but trust me it’s so worth it to meet people that will be nice to you and bring positivity and good vibes into your life. To bring you up and to give you the advice you need whenever you need a friend. The people who will be there for you and you can be there for them, an equal relationship. A person that won’t pick others over you and treat you like your nothing after everything you’ve already done for them. These are the people that you need in your life. That are positive and helpful and loving and caring. Happiness is what you deserve. Not that fake friend or family member that will never change no matter how much you hope they will.

4.     You can breathe again.

When that toxic person or people are no longer in your life, it’s like you can honestly breathe again. Like you don’t have to worry about that person turning on you or snapping at you all the time anymore. You don’t have to stress about when the next time is they’ll be mad or angry at you for something you never even done wrong to them. Everyone deserves to be able to breathe and live a stress-free life, but you can’t do that with toxic people surrounding you all the time. Stay away from them and I promise, you’ll feel like ten tons have been lifted off of your chest.



So that’s all for this post you guys and I hope you all enjoyed reading this post! Like I said, you deserve nothing but happiness, positivity, and just good vibes all around. I hope you guys take these tips and use them because you don’t deserve to be put down by fake and hateful people. You deserve nothing but the best! Love you guys to the moon and back. J
4 reasons why it's okay to lose people in life